Monday, January 18, 2016

#259 Nemecia- Kirsten Valdez Quade



#259 Nemecia- Kirsten Valdez Quade

Maria is seven years younger than her cousin, Nemecia, and sees her as an older sister. And like any younger sister, she bears the weight of jealously, admiration, and the need to find her own identity in the shadow of someone more defined.

This family is racked with a tragedy. Nemecia’s mother died when she was seven. Protecting her and giving her a loving home has become Maria’s parent’s biggest concern. Maria doesn’t understand, and tries to find out the truth of what happened. Nobody will tell her, because the memories are so sad, and she is so innocent.

“You are lucky, Maria to have been born after that day, You’re untouched.”

Whe she pries her family to tell her, she gets vague answers like: “It’s best forgotten.” Or “It’s beyond imagining”

“The whole town seemed to have agreed to keep me in the dark.” This adds to her resentment of Nemecia. Children understand and feel keenly when another child is getting special attention. Perhaps if she had been told why Nemecia needed to be treated differently, Maria would have undetrstood. But the family doesn’t seem to work that way. When there is a conflict between the girls, Maria is the one that is sent to live briefly with their aunt, instead of Nemecia. That’s a hard lesson for a young girl already feeling unloved to learn.

Like the scar on her cheek caused by Nemecia, these wounds never truly heal.



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